Wednesday, July 17, 2013
Failure! How you can get over it.
You are a failure - you have to stop trying here. This is exactly what we hear when we fail to achieve something that we planned for. Everybody has a dream, and most of us strive hard to achieve our dream. It’s not that all of our Dreams turn into reality. In order for our dreams to come true we plan, we concentrate all our strength to reach it, dedicate hours, days or even years of hard work all for achieving it. Not everybody is lucky enough to achieve their goal at one shot.
The initial few days after failure may be gloomy for some people, it is during this time that your real inner strength is tested. You have negativity all around you, looking back at all the mistakes it seems that you were so stupid to do it. You start to think of playing it safe this time and may end up giving away your hope and also your dream.
However the trait common among all the successful people that you will notice across the globe is that they are not afraid of failure. They rise again just like a Phoenix. Failure is a part of life and you have to accept it, at the same time you have to make sure that this failure brings out the best in you. After failing you are now experienced and probably will do something that was never thought of before. Be strong, be confident and most importantly keep calm and have faith in yourself. You need to keep trying if you want to take control of your life. Discipline is among the most important values you need to nurture in yourself. Look out for the pros and cons of your failure. Analyse what went wrong, why, how and when. Have a look around, you ever know what may inspire you.
Giving up dream is easy but to live it and to achieve it something that makes you special and successful.